Change the way you perceive yourself to improve your life

Wherever my words find you now I know you are striving for change.

In fact, it is the most natural thing you wish would happen to you. We are wired to constantly strive to improve lives and ourselves. This happens through effort, awareness and perseverance. There's no way around it if you want to have a better life than you do now.

If you want more from life and yourself, then you must make the necessary efforts in the necessary direction. Without them, nothing will change. And the way you choose what efforts to make, the decisions you make for yourself, and the direction of your life depends entirely on how you perceive yourself and view the world.

If you don't feel worthy of having the best for yourself, you will never get it.

If you settle for less than what you feel you want, you are closing the door to the things you truly deserve. As long as you perceive yourself as a failure and unworthy of the best according to your own perceptions of it, you will never act, make decisions and put forth effort as a successful and worthy person. You will never be able to attract the relationships you deserve with friends, associates and partners until you begin to feel cherished and worthy of them. You will never be valued and loved enough by others if you do not value and love yourself enough.

Being successful and worthy is an inner state, not an expression of external conditions and benefits. You are a worthy and successful person if and only if you do not betray yourself, the desires and longings of your higher self in which your divinity is expressed. Every time you stray from your path, your value decreases. Those around you can sense this very well and do not value you as much as you feel you deserve.

Every time you devote your time and attention to things and people that do not help you to be your best self, you are denying yourself of the right to live and act from the position of your higher version. Every time you don't give it freedom, you overshadow it and you don't empower it, and then you wonder why you have a hard time allowing yourself to feel like you deserve so much more than what you have.

There is a luminous, good, worthy, successful being within you, waiting for you to wake up from the sleep of your everyday life and notice it with your awakened consciousness. It is like an ethereal, beautiful, glowing radiance that is also your guide. When you become aware of its existence, you begin to feel a growing urge to understand yourself and your true needs, to free yourself from all external influences, desires, and longings.

The more you focus on your lighter self, the more you begin to understand it and strive to meet its needs. Thus, you gradually begin to return to yourself, to your true self, and begin to see how valuable and worthy of the best you are. The more you get to know your better and brighter self, the more clarity you have about yourself and where your place is in the world, what your strengths are and how to use them to live as the successful person you are meant to be.

Knowing that you deserve the best and nothing less than that, you will easily give up anything that does not meet your criteria for the best. From the moment, you begin to see yourself as a worthy and successful person, you forever change the way you make decisions about yourself and your life. You begin to see and appreciate all the qualities and gifts you have, you begin to love and appreciate yourself more, and people begin to appreciate and love you more. Every choice you make will be out of love for yourself and the world, and it will quite naturally lead to a change in your life towards a reality that is more suited to an awakened, brighter and better version of you.

However, in order to know what is best for you, what helps you express yourself through your brightest and most beautiful light, you must have a clear idea of what is truly important to you in this life, what truly brings you joy and meaning, how exactly you are living your life's tale. If you still have no idea about all of this, now is exactly the time to start taking time each day for you to try to connect with the light within and understand it.

If you don't and you start procrastinating over time, it means you don't perceive yourself as being worthy of the best, and from that perspective, every other small or big decision you make today and in the future, will not help you get to the point where you live a successful and worthy life. It's all up to you now and how you perceive yourself in this world. I just want to remind you. I want to remind you that life is a beautiful tale that everyone writes for themselves through the choices they make and their own actions each and every day.

I wonder what you're going to write on today’s page.

The good thing is that every morning you have a brand-new day where you can always start writing a brand-new script of your tale, perceiving yourself as a person who is kind, valuable and worthy of the best. Someday the pages will run out. Wouldn't you like to have filled them with the best, the most beautiful, the brightest you can and know? I urge you to write with love now. Come on! Create! Time flies...

Love, Fairy Mary

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