Did you know that you are already successful?
- Fairy Mary
- Mar 14
- 4 min read
Updated: Mar 18
Very often, we don't feel satisfied with ourselves because we want to change things that do not depend on us, or we have misconceptions about our success and where we want to be, and very often what we seem to want for ourselves is simply a model of success and prosperity that has been instilled in us. But is that what we want with all our soul, mind and heart?
I confess, I too, maybe just like you used to think that to be successful you have to have all those beautiful houses, villas, cars, journeys, clothes and at any cost. Over time, I realized that the standard templates for success are very meaningless, especially if you have to be dishonest with yourself and others and betray your value system.
For example, I didn't understand why I had to sacrifice the most important things to me (inner peace, freedom, openness, authenticity, time) just to be comfortable, accepted, and do whatever was required of me, even if it went against my understanding of life, to be like all normal successful people.

At a later stage of my life, I realized that success is something that is best defined by each of us for ourselves, rather than chasing universal stereotypes. Yes, success is wealth, but for some, it is expressed in the latest model car and Gucci bag, and for others - the most practical stable car and bag made by someone who made it with their hands, mind and heart to support their family, not just to generate profits.
I'm not suggesting what is good or bad; rather, I want to emphasize that everything comes with a cost. It's crucial to be aware of this when pursuing success. We need to be clear about how we define success for ourselves and whether we're willing to pay the price for it.
From the point of view of Life, every man is successful when he manages to use every day most judiciously all the available resources with which he is endowed, to be able to go on his way forward in the most efficient way possible, in absolute harmony with his soul and reality. Each one of us has potential, knowledge, skills, and qualities that Life requires us to develop and manifest to the highest degree, so that not only we can develop, but we can develop as a society, people, and humanity. I remind you that everything you have today - home, children, loved ones, possessions, health, money, time, knowledge, challenges and opportunities are given to you by the Force, Life, God as favorable conditions to evolve. And everyone is where they need to be to work internally, to clear their blockages, to work on their shadows, until they become a pure enough person, a pure enough soul, to not only be able to receive the light of kindness and love but to be able to radiate it and create through it, to ennoble their life and that of others, to the extent that it is possible for them to do so.
And if you have enough money today, a home, clothes, food, friends, people who love and cherish you, if you can read this beautiful language, if you can comprehend all this and your soul trembles with joy, then you are successful. You are successful because you have obviously made it this far!
I greet you! Yes, there are things that you want and you don't have yet, you have expectations, you work hard, you have little challenges in your life, but these are just the conditions that you need to solve your next task, to upgrade yourself, to see new horizons, to open your heart even more, to expand your mind, to be even more successful, because...
Success is a process, not a point at which everything is fabulous for you because - I'll let you in on a secret. Life doesn't like stagnation and if it has blessed you with success today, it will put you in a new situation because it will want you to learn more, be capable of more and know more, and so on ad infinitum.
Yes, we are here to grow, not to rest and enjoy our material goods. And when we resist growth and to change, we suffer.
We are here to acquire not only material but also spiritual wealth, and when we have both, then we are truly successful. I call it divine success - the possession of spiritual and material wealth to pursue continuous growth and progress. I wish you such kind of great success!
You are clearly on the journey to creating your fairy tale and becoming the highest version of yourself and your life. If you weren't committed to this path, you likely would have stopped reading this article long ago.
Thank you for continuing to read!
If these words really inspired you, just share them with friends. Pass it on! You never know, maybe someone needs to stop being dramatic and listen more bravely to their heart and rethink their idea of success!
And if you didn't think you were successful before, maybe you didn't have the right perspective from which to view your success.
Now, you can feel for yourself that right here, right now, today, you have made it. Today you are successful and boldly continue to build on that success! Pat yourself on the back, smile in the mirror. Hey, you're doing great! Celebrate your small successes every day and keep it up!
The world becomes a wonderful place when you pursue your path, without compromising your true self for widely accepted definitions of success.
Love, Fairy Mary
💖
Comentarios